We are a straight couple looking for another guy, wifey is a chic, down-to-earth and very sexy 31 year old Chinese lady. I am British and 39. First and foremost we are not looking for endless one night stands with numerous guys, we want to meet that one special guy who can sweep my wife off her feet just as much as I can. We're looking for something both special and hopefully long-term. We’re looking for someone is able to spend long weekends of fun with us. On this account we’re not interested if you are married or partnered, you must be single. We are both city professionals, own our own home and have a car and so I’m ideally looking for a gentleman with a similar life-style but who would be interested in getting to know us. We're looking for a guy who is willing to take wifey out on dates and someone who can make her heart pound, her hands tremble and her knees go weak. We're looking for a fun, witty, thoughtful gentleman. We're looking for a guy who takes his time with seduction, kissing, cuddling and caressing in the build up to our clothes hitting the floor. We're looking for someone with a slow hand. We're looking for a guy who knows the difference between making love and fucking and who will be able to learn which of these I need and when. For wifey, this is not just about sex. It’s 50% sex and 50% emotion and so spark and chemistry is very important. And, not wanting to undermine everything that I have just said about it not being only about sex, however as sex is half of it then I’m also looking for a guy who is as well endowed as possible; hopefully someone bigger than my husband (who is around 7 inches). The relationship on offer is not just one of threesomes, threesomes with me and my husband would account for maybe 30% of the time, the majority of the time you’ll have my all to yourself at home, either in front of my husband or alone in the bedroom. My ideal age range is a guy between 30-55. The way we'd both like this to all work is like this – if you’re interested please reply to me with an introduction and a photo of yourself, if I’m interested then I will give you my husband’s contact details as I would like initially for you both to get to spend some time to get to know each other and maybe meet for a beer or two; if husband approves then we’ll arrange a lunch date where we’ll all meet up together and then if you and I like each other and there is real chemistry there then you and I would exchange and then would arrange to go out on a one-to-one date with that one special gentleman I have chosen with the possibility, if we make a connection of both returning to our home to begin our journey of intimate journey of exploration, raw passion and adventure. I understand that to some that this initial process may seem a little long-winded and drawn out and a bit like auditioning but it is very important to me that the relationship begins this way so that I’m able to find the right gentleman, because yes, I am looking for fun and adventure but I’m also not the kind of girl who just jumps into bed with anybody and so I’m hoping you’ll also be kind and patient enough to understand me. Love L & L

My Ideal Person Personality is just as important as a big dick. As we're looking for something regular and hopefully long-term, it's important that we all get along very well and can enjoy a good conversation with each other too.

We are looking for a guy, a special friend, who will become part of our lives and enjoys days out with us as much as hot nights in.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room, Every room in my house

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage, Open to explore and discover

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Personality

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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