Lost my husband recently to cancer and just looking for something to entertain myself. If you have questions, just ask, I don't have any reason to hide the truth. Considering a TGirl. Always been a fantasy so if I get the chance, I'd like to make it a reality. I am not into chicks BUT a TGirl is a chick with a BONUS!! As with any sexual encounter, my partner must be DDF. Safe sex is a must. Discretion is an absolute MUST as I have .....

My Ideal Person Before you email or flirt, PLEASE READ my PREFERENCES first. I am pretty specific in what I prefer..... Not hung up on looks, just those guys who meet my preferences get moved to the short list.... If you really think you have what it takes to get my attention, then feel free to give it a shot. Never know what might happen....

Looking for someone who isn't hung up on looks. Just because you think someone has it going on doesn't always mean they do. I may be packing extra weight but don't think I can't keep a man busy! (keep in mind that I have lost 51 pounds in a year, and more is coming off before the end of this year!) I've been without sex for a while since my husband was unable to do anything for quite some time so I am looking for someone who can keep up. Not looking to hop in the sack with the first guy who responds either, I want to know who you are before we get to that level. If you are oral, then you can move closer to the front of the line. I like BIG, brawny men. Not into skinny short guys, sorry. I like hairy chests too. If you are over 6ft and 275 pounds, then you are getting closer to the front of the line! Dark hair, dark eyes.... oh yes. Being 'overly hung' is like having sports car with a stick transmission and not knowing how to drive it! Average is good, very good. Not into these gigantic cocks that you see in porn flicks because most men don't know what to do with them. It isn't a battering ram!!! There isn't much to do with a huge cock other than toss it over your shoulder and burp it!

I also want a man who can stimulate my mind as well. Not into just sweaty pig sex with someone who only speaks 'caveman'. Sex is more than just physical....

If you are over 60, I'm sorry but I am probably not interested. Just not into older men. Don't want to sound rude or whatever, I just have no interest.

Guys, if you are married, that is your problem. I am open-minded and if your wife doesn't care, or you don't get caught, then that is fine. I have never been 'the other woman' before so I have no problem with it if you don't.

I don't like someone who likes to kiss and tell. DISCRETION is a MUST.