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sapphiremyst 50 / F
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Harrisburg area, Pennsylvania, United States
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sapphiremyst 50/F
Harrisburg area, Pennsylvania
I've learned to have no expectations, that way there is no disappointment.
I am low maintenance, not low class. I am also not your every day girl. I don't need you by my side 24/7, and I don't need to see you every day. An occasional text, a phone call every now and again is fine with me. I am content with maybe seeing you once or twice a month. I am not going to monopolize your time or ask you to give me any more of yours than I can give of mine. If you are needy, co-dependent, or attention starved, I am definitely NOT the per for you. The same goes for anyone married/attached/in a relationship. If you already have someone, why do you want to cheat on them? I have very little respect for people who do that. That being said, the best way to engage me is to have the ability to hold at least a somewhat intelligent conversation. Asking me to fuck before we have even met will be met with silence or words a lady should not utter {that doesn't mean I won't say them anyway though ;) } That's all I have for now, best wishes in 2019, perhaps our paths will cross.

My Ideal Person I've come to learn there's no such thing, it's just the person who can best tolerate you on your worst days.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Metallica, Jimmy Buffett, John Lee Hooker, Godsmack,
Portishead, Lucinda Williams, Willie Nelson,

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
nope, I can't even think of one that I find attractive.
OK, I would do Keifer Sutherland, but he's the only

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 50 / female
  • Harrisburg area, Pennsylvania, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Men
Birthdate: July 1, 1972
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Single
Height: 5 ft 9 in / 175-177 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a light/social smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Some grad school
Occupation: transportation
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Not applicable
Have Children: No
Want Children: No
Bra Size: 38 / 85 D
Speaks: English, French, Spanish
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Medium
Eye Color: Green
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses
My Trophy Case: